This is a story of woman who had been married for 17 years and have three children, aged between 12 and 17, but over the past 10 years her marriage has become more and more unproductive.
The woman said that we don’t feel emotionally close to each other anymore. It seems we are sticking it out for the kids, so neither of us has to leave. However, our loveless, long-term cohabitation is becoming increasingly difficult to bear.
My husband is a kind and good-hearted man, but I have often felt neglected. We hardly talk about things that matter to us, schedule in quality time or have any kind of sexual relationship.
This woman married about 17-years but don’t have sexual relations with husband!:
She further said that i think I have emotionally prepared myself to count on myself if I want to make things happen. At present, I can’t even stand to share the same bed with him as I have been feeling a lot of resentment.
The woman added that I am aware that my husband has his own struggles (supporting his family abroad), which have caused him a lot of financial pressure, tiredness and lack of enthusiasm. But I also feel that I’m not living life to the fullest.
The woman whose name is Mariella replies, you’re probably right. Over time our relationships do tend to lose their romantic luster and battling to retain some semblance of an emotional connection, rather than just existing intolerable proximity, becomes quite the challenge.